I have the opposite problem of staring. I avoid looking people in the eye when I am talking to them. I feel as if I am coming off aloof and disinterested sometimes, but I just can't make myself look in their eyes. I want to and I try. Every now and then I will, but only for a split second and then I turn away quickly so they won't think I'm staring in their eyes too much. It's like there's a magnet keeping my eyes pulled away from other eyes. I can move it when I apply force but it snaps back when I back off.