Nope, voidray, I'm voting for "not" as well.
By the time I was 20, I'd begun to add up the time I spent waiting for others either to decide whether they wanted to go with me or to show up so we could leave. Soon I began opting to just go. I'm not the sort who needs company--to eat, travel, work--& no, not for sex either.
I enjoy quality company, but lacking that I'm quite capable of going to the movies, cruising the Greek isles, or eating at a local tapas restaurant with myself for company & a book in my hip pocket.
Even if you're really most comfortable settled into a longterm relationship, voidray, it's still excellent to be comfortable with your own company so that being on your own--by choice or because of some set of circumstances--doesn't present any problems. Flexibility is always a good "tool" to have in your mental toolbox, so being able to get thru a meal all on your own really says a lot for you.
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