Sometimes when I come out of a meeting or finish spending time with a friend it occurs to me, wow, I wasn't thinking about therapy/ist for a few hours, or however long the event was. The constantness of having t on my mind comes and goes. I wasn't surprised when it happened and I try not to stress about it too much, but I haven't wanted to tell him about it. I sort of assumed he's used to it and expects it and is aware I'm feeling it to some extent.
Like skycastle said, it's been going on for years (a little over 2 for me). Sometimes I'm sad about it. It has happened with every therapist I've had I think. I'm afraid now that my t doesn't approve of me being as attached as I am, which makes it worse. But it sounds like for most people attachment is considered a necessary part of therapy.
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