I know this is going to sound so bad , and i dunno how many will understand where i'm coming from. My partner and i are pretty controlling. I'm very controlling, hes pretty controlling.

we aren't allowed to talk to the opposite sex. With him i am allowed to casually conversant with a few of his close friends 2 or 3 with him there . I don't have any friends but i feel like it would be the same if i had any . Since we both understand how it feels to be so jealous. We agreed a long time ago that its best for us. That it works better for us that way , i don't necessarily need guy friends. and he doesn't need girl friends. So we agree on that . Is that wrong? if we're happy with it and we know its best for us . is it wrong just to avoid those problems in our relationship?

also , even though we agree and we're happy, i am a little distrusting , but thats my own illness. he's never given me a reason not to trust him and i believe he doesn't talk to girls for me . i believe everything he tells me and hes honest with me. but other men have treated me so badly , its just hard for me to believe he doesn't look at other women or talk to them . Now those are all my insecurities and my problems . i figure if i learn to love myself and start to believe im worthy enough for such a wonderful man . the part thats not working about it will be fixed. He understands my insecurities and i that i dont feel i deserve him, He understands how much i hate myself , so when i want reassurance from him , i wait until we're alone . and i confront him in a non threatening way and i explain to him what i am feeling , that today i feel a little insecure and i need to be reminded that your only attracted to me and im all you care about. He explains to me that its true and i feel fine until something else makes me worry about it.

He understands me and my insecurities he's okay with reassuring me and it never causes any problems, except for within myself, which is what i want to work on .But our relationship works fine just like this and we're happy.

I feel like "why fix whats not broken?"

is it still wrong and why ?any feed back?