Well , We agreed that whenever we need to work .its fine theres nothing we can really do about it. we can be kind and conversant with our co workers as much as needed to get the job done but forming friendships is not okay . but he works with his father for now. no women work there. but if he had to work somewhere where there was an attractive women and i felt threatened we'd talk about it . I Don't know how we'd handle it,but we would mutally .it shouldnt be a problem , mostly because what we're working for is money to save up for our own place together. . whenever i try to explain myself and get advice about this. People think im holding him hostage or something. Its never like that. we agree on everything im telling you, and if theres something we don't see eye to eye about , we compromise. We're very very happy. I'm happy.

When im feeling insecure he's reassurance might be enabling my behavior...
but what im thinking is if i just love myself for myself. and not try to love myself for my relationship.

a lot of my insecurites will go away . But we'll still always be the jealous type . and we're okay with that . We're happy together as we are. I just have a lot of other issues with my self haterd that i actually bring up onto him.

i am 16 but not in highschool . Thankyou for responding. usually i just get nasty judgmental words when i bring this up. i really just want to do the right thing for my relationship . and keep things going well . our two year anniversary is next month (: so thankyou again.