I sent T another email this morning. I'd like some opinions on it.

I told H about session yesterday. I told him exactly this regarding your
statement that I'm worth more than the risks: "I know what these risks are, so it meant a lot to me that she said that." He replied, "Hmph, your reading into it too much; people take risks all the time and don't think about the
consequences. It's not that big a deal. But I will say, you're not assuming the
worst. I guess that's progress." I said, "She seems to put a great deal of
thought and prayer into her clients. I appreciate that." He went, "Hmph" again
and that was the end of the conversation.

He took something that meant a lot to me and tried to minimize it. Your
statement made me feel like I was worth something to someone; you've tried to convince me of my inherent worth for quite some time. You make an enormous impact on my life for the better.

But in the back of my mind, a little voice doubts, saying "Is he right? Is it
really not that big a deal?"

Is he right?

Chopin

Is he right or is he minimizing?