I received an answer from T within two hours of sending my email. She took it seriously:

Don't let others steal your joy! It might not be a big deal to someone else-they might not struggle with self worth. So it would not mean much to them.
The truth is that I do think about the consequences of my choices especially
when it comes to my clients and to my profession.
Your worth is set by God not by others or their opinions.
Have a great weekend,
T