Does it really matters if he knowlegde that he has treated you so poorly? If he had considered you as his wife why would he have treated you so unworthly like in the the first place? Do you see that this has nothing to do with your husband. Instead it has everything to do with what you believe you're worth and what you deserve? We allow others to treat us the way we think we deserve. This has nothing to do with your husband being a dishonorable man but it has everything to do with how you feel about your own self-worth. When is enough is enough? You say you can't stand watching someone hurting in front of you but when you wake up everyday and see yourself in your mirror you are looking back at your own reflection and this person is worth being happy.