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Old Feb 17, 2012, 08:04 PM
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AWESOME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Way to go for talking about what you needed and felt. You respected her space and allowed her to offer you what she was able to offer.
That was so mature of you to handle things the way you did. What an amazing job!

Yesterday my T and I actually also talked about our hug at the end of sessions. And we both agreed that I need them because it is theraputic. It teaches me that a male in authority can touch me in a way that is not sexualized. That touch can be safe and even healing. I could tell that my T was glad I was talking about the meaning of the hug to me. It was like he needed me to let him know how the action he gave me was helping me heal.

So I encourage you to pay close attention to how the hug your T gave you today makes you feel. Keep track of it and share that with your T. And again - GREAT JOB!
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