Bekki, I'm devastated for you--& don't worry, it's a short post considering what all happened.

After all the thought you gave to the coming-out & then to how to tell her, I can't imagine what that look on her face must have done to you. Giving her space is great for her, but I don't know that it offers much succor to you.

I sit here, searching for something to offer... but I'm coming up empty. What I think seems so mean, that you deserve a better friend.

You have been so brave in facing up to the fact that you were only letting part of the real you out in the world in the past.

Now that the total woman's engaged with life, the odds of finding a friend worthy of the title have gone way up--don't you think?

Take good, loving care of you. Let us help you any way we can.

Roadie

If your friend was already of the opinion that you are sick, then her coming to terms with your bisexuality would still not leave you with a healthy friendship, would it?