I feel ya. The only thing that is seperating me from my estranged alcoholic husband and our sick unhealthy crap is him being in jail.
He's been living with his mom since November of 2010 but he and I would still text back and forth. He'd show up. There was push pull. It was a nightmare from I felt I could never escape. In over my head to the max.
My therapist and I are working on establishing firm boundries. but he said it's not gonna happen over night.