I have no one to talk to so I'm just looking for venue to release my feeling... I have been married for 5 yrs and have 2 beautiful children... But my relationship is very stagnant... It gets to a point when I feel very disappointed and talking bout it does not even solve the problem.

I begin with me feeling neglected and not appreciated. On our anniversary, we do not get a chance to spend time cos he is busy with worl. But last year, it gets a disappointing mode for me when he did not even reply to my text on our anniversary. The only thing he could say was 'Sorry I din get you anything'. When I waited the whole day for his reply and received none, I tell you, my heart really sank so low that I almost tear at work. On Valentine's day, he did not even bother to say anything to me... It is kinda sad...

He no longer hugs or kisses me nor says he love me... When will these happen? Only after we made love... It's super frustrating that after many talks about this, it is still happening... And lets not even talk about making love... if the mood is good enough, we can have twice a month... if it's bad, once or none... No matter how much I tried to initiate, it's always the TV, iphone or sleep that he looks for...

I've never asked him for any money or anything knowing that he's responsible for a lot of bills... But I feel at most, he can do is show me a little appreciation... It's kinda of sad.. I am physically here but not mentally... I am staying becos I have to not becos I wan to... My family is a traditional family who believes marriage is for life... When I got married, my mum told me that no matter what, I must remain quiet when things get bad... But I cant cos I'm an educated woman and I like to voice out my opinion... but if after all that I've done, it is still like this... what are the options I have?