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Old Feb 18, 2012, 08:44 AM
Blondboy44 Blondboy44 is offline
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Hello Always. Sorry to hear you are having a rough time. Your feelings of being unappreciated are understandable given the fact that even anniversaries and V-day are ignored. While my marriage is less than hunky-dory, I will say that I cannot remember missing an anniversary, a birthday, a V-day or a mother's day in the 46 years we have been married. So, I feel you have a right to be distressed. What is going on in your husband's life? Is he working too hard; stressed out over job challenges? Economic problems? You mentioned the quantity of sex; how is the quality? What about your appearance and "self-maintenance" of yourself? It is not a good idea IMHO to remain totally quiet "when things get bad." I think you have to have honest communication about all this. Care must be taken not to be too aggressive or acusatory or he may shut down. It is not clear here what you mean by " all that i've done." Maybe professional counselling is in order.