Hi Lazy,

It sounds like you've got some resentment building between your boyfriend and yourself. I'm unable to relate to your bf's perspective, so I'm referring to you sounding resentful.

I'd recommend carefully wording what you say to your bf. Be honest, of course. Just be careful not to attack him with, "You do ___ and it's driving me nuts!". That would only make your bf feel defensive. Instead, say, "I feel as though you prefer to play video games than talk with me. I feel lonely and frustrated (or ____)." Hopefully, your bf will be willing to discuss the topic further.

Personally, I believe that your bf's disinterest could be depression. Perhaps he's feeling a little overwhelmed with a girlfriend and baby living with him? Part of him may be yearning for some individuality ~ needing some space, and he's therefore withdrawing from you. Depression certainly can cause people to be argumentative and snippy.

Best wishes to you!