Welcome to Psych Central alwaysme,

Your marriage certainly doesn't sound fulfilling. What brought you two together? Did you share interests and activities?

Having children does complicate marriage, that's for sure. But, there are still things that can be done to express affection. Go to him and ask if you may hug him. Offer a back/shoulder rub. Give him a few soft and slow kisses. Tell him how much you miss him. See how he responds.

Couple's therapy could be very helpful for you both. Hopefully, a mix of the above will help you through this tough time. **hope**