Why are you with a guy you consider "boring" and "stupid"? Why is it, sports excites him, and because you deem sports boring, then he's wrong? Only you know what's interesting and fun, and everyone else is wrong? What makes something interesting and fun is a matter of opinion, and not just yours.
No doubt he has faults--I saw and responded to another post in another thread of yours--but you're speaking very abusively about him. He says he "loves his Sweetpea," that's lame? It may not be the response which you're seeking, but at least he's being affectionate. And if he doesn't want to smoke weed, he has at least one brain cell.
And when you mentioned not wanting kids and he responded with, "We'll be ok," it sounds like he meant you'll all be ok as a family; he wasn't speaking of you and him. He wasn't expressing a lack of concern about others.
And most guys are different than most women. When those differences aren't what you want, hang out with your girlfriends.
If the sex is boring, tell him you want to try something new. Try initiating something more exciting for you.
If you have to speak so viciously about him, he's really not the right one for you.
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Maven
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