He doesn't have children. Seeing my own father cheat on my mother and have a child with someone else whilst he was with her leads me to draw a line at that. If he had children I would never of entered into a relationship with him.

It's all just shaken me up a lot, I never felt like a victim, even though I had been one of domestic violence, it was just something that happened and I dealt with it. I wento into this purely for sex and when feelings developed it felt so natural..So now I'm trying to go over things and figure out some sort of tipping point framed by what everyone on here has said, to see where it started.