His shoelace, is my husband's, button on his pants a few weeks ago. I have just learned to tell myself it is, a him problem, and not, a me problem. Ultimately, he's gotta walk around with a safety pin holding his pants together...not me. He knew how important his meetings were, and how do I know if he has a loose button? We are going to go through a similar problem, again, with our taxes. Every year, I tell him to file the receipts by month, and keep an on going spread sheet the whole year...does he do it? Nope. He has spread sheets for everything...just not this. This year, I politely told him I will do it with him, however, if he doesn't do it the other way next year...I'm not helping. It's too big a deal to go through a whole year of different receipts. Blah!!