WOW..I hope you are all able to find T's who are much more respectful of you! My T will have a cup of water or coffee once in a while..but I don't mind that at all, she might have 3 sips during the session if that. She's done the cough drop thing, too..but always offers me one (lol) and apologizes about having to have it.

Her phone is on silent on the desk behind her, neither of us can see it..I don't think I could handle it if she constantly looked at her phone, I would feel like I was wasting her time or something