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Originally Posted by Moose72
He just thinks he has issues- which he does- but he wants me to pay attention to them while he's killed our intimacy. I did enough putting him first when we had a semi-ok relationship and I don't feel like doing it when this week I come first.
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I think we might have the same bf/ex bf. I tried to tell mine how I was feeling. He could see me right in front of him being a mess, crying and all the rest and he still would tell me I was not giving him enough attention and being like I used to be. He was right, I was not. I could not. So he broke up with me and for a month now has persisted in telling me I am not meeting his needs. How he can't believe I am not doing what he needs.
I am sorry you are in that situation now.
It is hard to believe someone cares about us and loves us when they do this. I just finally stopped answering my ex bf texts or calls. I have nothing to give.
How are you now?