Growing up I never knew anyone who saw a T. The concept never even entered my mind so when I got depressed I just suffered for years. Then one day I heard that Jessica Simpson saw a T and a light bulb went on in my old dense brain I just went, good lord if she can see a T, well so can I!! and off I went and have not looked back. One thing I did learn was that I could help the T by telling them what I needed them to ask me because deep down I kind of knew where I needed to go...in case this helps. Anyhoo--Best of luck to you hun!!