sunrise, from everything (in general) that you've wrote about your T, he seems like a good T. But my G*d, everything that you've written in here would make me absolutely CRAZY and mad at my T. It is SO unprofessional! My T has looked at her phone a few times throughout the 4 years of therapy with her, and they mostly when her kids were off from school and they called or texted her. I think they are old enough to understand that they can only do that when its important.
Reading this thread has made me appreciate mine more

She doesn't really do anything that bothers me, and I have a lOT of stupid pet peeves. Then again I don't really look at her. Once we must not have shut the door all the way because it started opening in the middle of my session, and I don't think I've seen her move faster to get it shut.