my mother in law died last year, and my husband and i had to take over for my father in law who has alzhimers... ive been needing to get his stuff togethere and take it to the tax lady for the last 3 weeks but have been putting it off... he has a rep payee now so i dont pay his bills or take care of his finaces anymore, and he is now in an assisted living facility, however i am still power of att. and have to take care of this thing... he is my husbands mohters 5 spouse and we got stuck with things when she passed last year. this is not something that i can do as i have my own issues that i can barely handel and im not even incontrol of my own finances as my huby is my reppayee and my med giver and all that stuff, yet becasue i became power of att when she passed im now responsible for all this stuff still... the ann of her death is in march 2 and it is creeping close and im finding this feb has been very hard to cope as last year we spent every day in feb at the hospital with her plus working full time and taking care of my father in law... im exhausted just thinking back on it all... it overwhelms me with grief and i dont watn to deal with any of it