Well I was dropped on my head as an infant about 2 months old and 3 years ago went through the windshield of a car at 50 mph and last year got run over as a pedestrian at 45 mph and was in a coma. I suffer significant traumatic brain injury and short term memory loss. I to struggle with relationships and work. In fact I'm on leave now looking fir assistance. I have to write notes for myself for everything . It's a pain but it works. Good luck!