The PC forum is for support - giving of or asking for. We bend the rules a little in the Psychotherapy forum because we want to be free to explore, but it's not carte blanche to judge? I think that's the distinction, the fine line of difference. Sometimes we DO say, "it's not you, it's T" but again, that is in support, not anger. Not that we don't sometimes lose our heads.

So maybe the preacherheckler is just asking (and if she's not, maybe I will!) if the T's can't hear you, why are you yelling at them here? I mean this gently, because I so identify with this - who are you trying to save from what monster?