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Originally Posted by Secretum
I feel like I just don't have the capacity to bond with other people. I have a few friends, but I feel like I can't really get close to people. I feel like if the entire earth were a gym class, I would be picked last out of the entire 7 billion of us. 
Sorry for the self-pity fest; I just need to tell someone about this. |
I'm so sorry you're feeling like the 7 billionth...
Secretum, I have very few friends IRL. Good, close friends, I mean. And they aren't as close as I used to think.
People occasionally complain that I don't let them get to be friends as hard as they try, or that I don't let them get as close to me as they want to be. I think some of us are that way. We just can't handle a lot of friends making demands on us. We have that
very close space for
one person, no more.
It's a matter of not thinking it's
you maybe. Or finding people like you. IDK the secret.
But I wish I knew the answer. It makes so many people so sad...