Thank you Fuzzy. T is upset with me. He knows I am overwhelmed already with everything else I have to do for dad. And to take on full time care for him at his home with my physical and mental disorders.. its going to be too much. Ijust dont know any other way. He wants me to talk to him. Tell him that I cant do this because it could break my marraige . I dont want to upset my dad like that. But I dont want to be separated from my husband or my home at a time when things are going well for us . I just need a peace of mind about all of this.