It's little things that creep up on you and smack you in the face isn't it?

8 years together. It's been 4 months for me, since she just stopped contacting me, then I found out she was seeing my friend, didn't even tell me, she put it on facebook...hurt like nothing before has.

4 months down the line, both our birthdays, the festive season and vals day and...nothing, haven't heard a thing from her, though i have not contacted her...couldn't handle the pain of speaking to her....and...I think about the detective columbo today, she loved him...god knows why,ha, but it's stupid things like this that haunt me. You are not alone in how you feel. Like i say, it's been 4 months for me and I realize i'm nowhere near over her and that I will never stop loving her...even though she betrayed me...it's about patience, self preservation and time...if it takes 8 months for me, so be it, I will wait and try to live day by day...you must do the same, don't be hard on yourself and let the pain wash over you...it will pass in time my friend.