Hi Indianman,

I am half Indian, nice to see you here .

Please know that sexuality is NOT a nice metal box that you can fit neatly into. It is NOT something easily definable, as much as Indian and American (and other) societies want it to be. Sexuality is a spectrum, maybe even a circle. There have been times in my life when I have felt totally lesbian (rarely, but I remember questioning that when I was about 18), times when I felt totally bi (most of my life), and times when I felt totally heterosexual (like recently). It is ever-changing for many people, and that constant flux is OK!! There is no need to identify yourself any which way.