Mylifeisdepressing, I was quite certain when I was 14 that I was bisexual--only I didn't know there was a term for it. I knew I had been in love with a boy in seventh grade, but suddenly I felt what I was certain were (& quite probably were sexual stirrings for my eighth grade algebra teacher ... A certain Miss!

Remember that your friends are going to be waking up to these sorts of new, complicated, and sometimes amazing feelings themselves. It will be all they can do, perhaps, to deal with their own emotions. Can you really, in all fairness, ask them to help you sort out your own uncertainties?

Since you have no object of your affections in mind, I hope your will take these developing feelings to,a school counselor or--even better--a therapist if you are working with one or can arrange to see someone. I promise you, it's all very muc) a normal part of a young teen's growing-up experience.