I was once the other woman. The man kept saying he wasn't in love with his wife but yet he stayed with her.

Do you want children,a home, and be a family. You won't get this because the guy isn't going to leave his wife for you.

You will be alone during the holidays because he's going to spend it with his wife not you...

You always be the other woman. No rights to the guy because his wife will rule him.

Think about all of this. He's too old for you. He basically could go to prison for rape of a child.