I'm speaking of inconsistencies such as ..

"Yes, this hurts because I wish I could have him all to myself. It makes me feel like I'm not enough to make him happy."

and

"I don't want him all to myself."

It's confusing for sure.

People here were truly trying to help you from the information given from yourself. This says nothing about what society thinks of women. Putting thought and making these posts takes time. Time that total strangers have been willing to give you freely. I don't think saying that about the posters here is fair. You were the one asking why everyone hates you, what's wrong with you that they are never happy with you ect. Seems to me that would imply something along the lines of being the victim of something.

Like you, I and others have said, the choice is yours. There is no reason to get upset with the posters, when you asked for genuine, logical advice. That is what you have been given. And much more than most threads here.