It's odd - I often fantasise about past lovers or about being with a highly sexed woman who understands my libido. It do watch a lot of porn - usually girl-on-girl. I have a high libido (this is not something I actually like to have; I would genuinely like to reduce it) - masturbation is not something I always do for fun - usually its a necessity thing. That sounds pretty sad, but it's just the way it is