Not sure how much longer I can deal with my marriage problems! My husband and I have been married for 18 years and have 2 children. We have had problems for many years and I have always been the one to think positive, but now at least once a day I think about divorce. I keep telling him I am unhappy and we need to get some counseling, but he just disregards my feelings and at the most says I love you. This is the extent of our communication, and now he is having health and mental issues that are causing problems in the bedroom... i am feeling so un-loved and devalued by his actions and in-actions. We just seem to be so incompatible on so many levels and I never thought I'd get to this point in my marriage. I'm just not sure where to go from here... I want him, but I want him to be able to meet my needs and provide a happy, healthy life together with me for our children; yet that has not happened and not sure it ever will