In the past 5 years I have been in and out of depression and anxiety. At some point, I needed help from friends to check on me, help me to do groceries, cheer me up...

Now that I am not "sick" I have a hard time to define my friendship with this healthy me. Friends are often asking..
how are you sleeping?
did you take your medication today?
on a scale of 1 to 10 how are you feeling?
...

Any suggestions on how to redefine my friendship?