how do take away the pain from hubby he is feeling very low, the way she is is the way she has allways been ican avoid her but she is his family she even asked him to get up at 4am in the morning to carry her bags to the bus up the hill, why were can she go at 4 in the morning if its to go catch her plane , taxi would be more apropite but we beleave she is going onto town to stay with other ppl when they get back from holiday , beleave it or not the ppl they are going to stay with are my family , or my aunt and uncle , so while they are there we will be the subject of conversation , but like lots of familys we dont see them much but imagine what will be passed around about us to all the relations just because his gran doesnt understand