This is a very important topic, especially to me, and I am glad you raised the question although I do not claim to have the definitive answer. I am a latent bisexual and a Christian that is very active in the church. I lust after good looking women non-stop. I also curse a lot, get angry a lot, and have never learned to forgive others who trespass against me. I do not "love all my neighbors" as He commanded. The Bible says my behaviors or thoughts are sins, but most everything else is a sin also. There has only been one person that ever walked the earth who was perfect and that was over 2000 years ago. The key to salvation is whether you believe in Him and accept Him as your savior. IMHO what we have to do is continually pray for His guidance and constantly confess our sins and ask forgiveness. As I tell my friends, I am not a "good Christian" but I am still trying. I hope it will be enough on Judgment Day. Good luck to you as well.