I wore out my college psychiatrist, who finally didn't know what to do with me, and had me shipped up to a state facility closer to home.(That place was horrible. Trauma!! He could have picked a better facility, but that is beside the point.) Anyway, since it was a voluntary admission, I managed to get myself out after a week, and go home to a new T and new pdoc, who stuck with me for 15 years.
It was my T who recommended my pdoc, and he was good. So don't give up on pdocs, the right one is out there for you. It just might take some patience in finding him/her.