Makes much sense. BDP and depression are pretty good at that.

No one is damaged goods tho, we are not merchandise. No one escapes the process of life without some hurt, or being banged up a bit or a lot. I don't know if you or any of us will feel that we are cappibale of being, or feel like we will truly be loved until we love ourselves. I know that sounds cheesy. But I mean really love ourselves, not just confideance. Love ourselves, including acceptance of ones self, patience, caring, appreciation...

I'm not talking about the man anymore, just about you. And only about what you are saying. Cause either way, with him without him, what you are dealing with personally is important.