One of us don't want to go see our t tomorrow and is very upset that she has to go. I tried to explain that we all go so she has to go. I told her she don't have to come out just listen. She still don't want to go. Sue will make us go because that is what we need to do but does that hurt the other more because she is being made to go. She is afraid of telling. I don't want to tell. Telling is ok. It will be ok. It is time to tell. It's ok to tell.