Yesterday me & T were talking about my SI. She asked if there was something that would make me not want to cut anymore. I told her I didn't know. She then preceded to tell me she was going to say something I wasn't going to like...she said well cut on then. Great encouragement right? Luckily I didn't take those words to heart because it could have only made things worse. I get she is not specialized to help someone who self harms, but that doesn't mean you say things like that. Thats just like telling a suicidal person to go kill their self since they can't find anything that will help them not want to kill their self. I guess I should stop looking for people to understand...this includes T.