Wow reading your post got me to thinking.....I was never good enough ever according to my dad. Maybe that is why I kept getting that message even when I was grown from boyfriends and husbands etc...It is a hard one to shake off. I am truly a work in progress even after all these years. I am sorry you never learned to drive. I am glad that I am not alone though! lol! My girlfriend was teaching her son to drive in the cemetery by her house, She said that was a great place for him to learn because he couldn't hurt anyone there! lol! You will do it!