Hi,
There is a severe lack of communication between my husband and I.
And I can't seem to break thru.
When all he wants to talk about is the bills and complain about our 20 year old son- part of me shuts down.
We've been together since 1988.
I keep thinking this should be easier or else there is something really wrong with me. I know I tend to isolate anyway (I have depression). He is also a sober alcoholic with no program.
I keep thinking about how you can't get bread from a hardware store and worry that, even though he is sober- what if I can't get from him what I am trying to get?
Hope this makes sense to someone.
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