People have different resilience. Resilience comes from internal and external factors. Some people seem to be built to handle more than others, but everyone has their limits. Resilience is also taught. If you learn that you have support available and parents, friends, or someone will be there and stand by you through your troubles, you can handle more than if you believe you are all alone or someone will criticize you and tell you that you are never good enough. You can become more resilient by finding people who support you and being around them more, and by building your coping skills.