I don't mind discussing legitimate sexual problems here. I think you should go back to the sexual counselor and be honest since this is a medical problem. This may be due to becoming desensitized and excessive masturbation ...but it would need to be excessive, for it to do damage.

Are you getting nocturnal erections - this is normal for men to get nightly erections. So if a man is complaining of ED problems and isn't getting nightly erections while sleeping ...this may indicate physical ED. If the man IS getting nightly erections, then this may indicate an anxiety related ED...which you may have. When a man has anxiety related to erections, the adrenaline hormone can prevent erections. You worry...this triggers the adrenaline and this stops the erections. You can do a simple test called the 'stamp test' if you don't know if you're having these erections while sleeping. If you are having nightly erections, then you need to approach this from a psychological view. Are you on medication for anxiety?? Here's a link:

http://www.healthcentral.com/erectil...10566-108.html