Kane, I'm no expert, but you might look closer at your jealous feelings and take a look at what's it all about. Is it being possessive, and maybe controlling; wanting her to "only" think of you in a romantic way. I'll bet you look at pretty girls when you see them; what if she got into your face about that? You've ogled pretty women on the screen also.
Females will look at other guys, but that does not mean they will take any action toward doing anything about it. If you make your girlfriend feel safe and loved, and
she is still with you likely for that reason. You need to take a look at your self respect also IMHO, and do you feel she is equal to you or do you feel less than her. Why
the insecurity? Hope you will find a way to stop obsessing on this. Look up jealousy on line in some of the psychology articles and see how you fit into this. Do a little research on your feelings and see how it fits.
Hope you stop this self-punishment, I'm sure you don't deserve having your mind eaten up with this negativity. Take Care now, bj
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