(((((((((((((((pat)))))))))))))))))

how about a compromise?

How about you stay busy and get what you need done each day, then pick at least one hour to FEEL it...all of it, including the pain.

Change is necessary sometimes, but it doesn't mean it's not painful and we need to recognize that for what it is. Sometimes that pain can lead us to some beautiful remembrances.

So, make your changes, keep yourself strong by limiting the "whine", but allow for the feeling, sweetie. rant, rave and moan...even cry...for that hour.

we'll be here for all of it.

KD