Ok, so this is a slight spin off from another posting. I have a really good therapist and I myself may just be the most unpolished client in the world.

Many months after the, "How many times a week do you and wife have sex?" question I tried again.

This time I asked............ "Does wife give you bl--j--s?"

T's reply:
"I am having a huge reaction to this question and I am on the ceiling right now. I am going to get myself grounded. Then he said, "KC, I know that you have really important questions regarding sex, given your history it really couldn't be any other way, and we are going to sort all of this out."

I blurted out it was a bad and stupid question.

T kindly spoke again. "KC you don't have bad and stupid questions. Let's try and find a more effective way to ask your questions."

How many of you also feel like you blurt out the wrong things to t's? If so are you willing to share that conversation here? How did your t's handle it? What do your t's do with those "personal" questions?