Well, first off, I might have thrown up in my mouth a little.

Then it would have just 'unleashed the beast' so to speak. I probably would have asked him more questions each as personal as the last and he would be like, "oh my..........................what has happened to this conversation?"

We have encountered this before. His wife and him co teach skills training for DBT and one of the rules of DBT is no sexual contact between group members. I'm all about following rules and I just kind of expected them to follow as well. I just couldn't understand how they could abstain for so long. That's when t informed me (gently again) that the rules didn't apply to the group leaders. ?? what do I know??