I think, especially at first, it is hard to tell the difference between "anger" and other strong emotion/emphasis? A T's desire to be understood can cause an intensity that can be mistaken for anger sometimes I believe. That the T may have a different opinion is not "anger" either, but I think that often, if we are not agreed with we can think the other person is "against" us or angry at us or that we're "wrong", etc.
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